通常我们会说"I feel", "feel"什么呢。"confuesd,delighed, exhausted(精疲力竭，心累啊！！！)...."如果英文不好，建议4选1： "mad,sad,glad ,scared", 不要总是"happy".
还有没有说”My feeling is….”的举个手，你的英文可能是体育老师教的。典型理科男，要不中学议论文写多了，受伤了。
如果你说"I feel that ...", 多加了个that差别不小。“ I feel"是真情实感，”I feel that.." 暗示这是在思考，并不是天然的情感。体会下，这是无话不谈的朋友还是谨慎小心的伙伴。
看美剧多了知道，吵架的前奏一般是。“You make me feel ...." . 开始填空，"stupid, uncomfortable,sad, unattractive……."。如果女人对男人说，”You make me unattractive”, 这简直是血泪控诉。 这种表达方式 " inviting defensiveness（防备） and antagonism(敌对)." 简单来说，找骂，准备拉架。如果感觉不出差别，试着大声，慢慢的重复说几句。英语一定要开口说，读出来才有feel. 另外，当你开始说"you make me feel" , 常常也是默认把自己当作victim, 受害者.
当然，夸奖是不错的，如男人对女人说，"you make me feel special”，打动人心，见一个说一句。
Gina: I feel unattractive. When you hardly ever compliment me, I think I must not look good to you.
Gerald: I’m so sorry you feel that way. Actually it's all the more sad because I just about always like how you look. I probably could tell you more often how much I appreciate your clothes and hair and especially your smile. And as I think about it, I can see that lately I’ve been so preoccupied with work that I haven’t noticed much else.
“I probably could tell you more often how much I appreciate …….” 多好的表达。
如果“You make me feel…”开头，可能结果不同哦。谈话要Productive, 有建设性。
沟通就是为了避免"invites defensiveness", 激发对方的防御心理。
1. 多用”I feel”。
2. 使用安全词，"sad", "scared" 。
试想一下，风雨交加的夜晚，一个女生说 “ I feel scared…..” ,对面这个男的估计就放弃抵抗了。
例如 "My concern is ......."
“When you came in so late last night from work I felt very scared. My concern is ...."
"When you..... I feel.....。My concern is .........."
当然，对于 Narcissistic（自恋)人格的人来说，怎么表达都没用。“Go to hell” 可能是唯一合适的表达方式
Upset - very sad, worried, or angry about something
Example: They felt too upset to talk about the incident.
Frustrated- Feeling annoyed and impatient because you are prevented from achieving something
Example: Frustrated passengers have started to use other forms of transport
Desperate - Very worried and angry because you do not know how to deal with an unpleasant situation
Example: In a desperate attempt to escape, he killed the guard.
Satisfied- pleased with what has happened or with what you have achieved
Example : Honestly, some people are never satisfied!
Anxious- worried because you think something bad might happen
Example: His silence made me anxious.
Cheerful- behaving in a happy friendly way
Example: Paula seemed to be her usual cheerful self.
Stammer- keeps repeating a sound and has difficulty in saying certain words because of a speech problem, nervousness, excitement etc….
Example: Nina, blushing with embarrassment, began to stammer.
Delighted- very happy, especially because something good has happened
Example: We're delighted with our new grandson.
Sob -to cry noisily while taking short breaths
Example: I could hear her sobbing.
Resolute - extremely determined
Example: a resolute opponent
Sad- feeling unhappy, especially because something bad has happened
Example: Reading her letter made us all feel a little sad.